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WELCOME

Welcome to my blog. I am so sorry if you have come here to hire a photographer. As much as I have loved all of my clients, and I appreciate the business and friendships you have brought me… it is time to move on. I am going to be turning my focus more to my family. Thank you to all who have supported me. I just really felt it necessary for a change. Not only has my life gotten quite busy, but I feel the need to reconnect a little with my spirit. Life is rapidly flying by, and my kids are growing so fast. I am eager for the new change, and I hope you all will understand.  I had a decision to make about what to do with this blog. This year I have a goal to think of one thing I am thankful for each day. I have heard people that have tried this, and it was a wonderful experience. Of course since I still have a passion for photography, I think I will have to incorporate that in as well.

I’m thankful for lunch with CW

WE don’t often get to go to lunch with Chad. It was such a treat to get to go and hang out with him for an hour today. The little kids were in their beds trying to fall asleep when he called to ask me to meet him. They couldn’t believe their ears when I told them they could get out of bed because we were going to lunch with dad. Cozy kept saying, “Seriously, I mean seriously?” It was so funny because the kids were all over him with their dirty little hands. He was trying so hard to keep his clothes clean to return to work in. Then, as we were leaving, CW spilled his whole pop on the ground. I got a little kick out of that one.

These were taken with my phone…. bad quality.

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Lesson #1 in photography

Your camera has a light meter which measures the light in the given shot and sets an ideal exposure automatically. Most people depend on the light meter (when your are shooting automatically) to expose, which is ok, and you may get some nice images once in a while mixed in with poorly exposed ones (too dark, too light). However, if you want to take it to the next level you MUST get comfortable with shutter speed and aperture. Oh and yes, ISO too. Don’t get overwhelmed. It’s not too difficult, however if you want to really take nice images I’d say check out this tutorial about Exposure. Getting Exposure down is key. It will take a little while but learning how to correctly expose your pictures is vital to good photography. You will be glad to took the time to learn.

This is one of my favorite websites to learn about Aperture, shutter speed, and ISO. I couldn’t explain it any better.

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This is how I began…. I read my camera manual I think 10 times all the way through. Maybe more.   Learn how to change the settings on your camera. Then go back and read the tutorial about exposure one more time.
Get that camera off auto and turn off the flash! I started with my camera on AV mode (which means you decide the aperture and the camera decides the shutter speed). I could set the f-stop and have the camera do the rest. Now PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE!!! It’s fun and with digital it’s free. When I was learning it was film and expensive. Then by the time I got my images back from the lab I would forget what I did to achieve the image. I learned to take notes while I was learning. With digital you can see the results right away.
The best way to get your head around aperture is to get your camera out and do some experimenting. Find a spot where you’ve got items close to you as well as far away and take a series of shots with different aperture settings from the smallest setting to the largest. You’ll quickly see the impact that it can have and the usefulness of being able to control aperture.   If you can master aperture you put into your hands real creative control over your camera. I think that aperture is where a lot of the magic happens in photography.
Once I felt like I had a grasp of this then I moved to manual. Where I learned the relationship between Shutter speed and aperture and how to balance the two to get a correctly exposed image.
It’s fun. There is no reason anyone can’t learn how to take better photos today with all of the information out there on the web. When I first started I read every book I could get my hands on. Now when I have a question, google is my best friend. I can always find my answers.

here are some examples of knowing how to manually change your shutter speed. These were shot at a high shutter speed. These shots would have been lost on automatic…

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here are some examples of a very shallow depth of field (small aperture). Do you see how Cozy’s eyes are in focus and here ears are not. Always with faces focus on the eyes. This was shot at f/1.4cozy-jamies-2
Not as shallow of a depth of field in this next image as the previous image but still the background is soft and he is in focus. I shot at f/4g-skate-sit-2

The earth to a child

I was going through my HUGE pile of things to sort and came across this poem that Piper (age 9) wrote. I think it is absolutely beautiful. She has such a creative mind and so much voice in her writing. She has to be painting, writing, coloring, gluing, or creating something at all times. Her imagination is something to behold. I’d love to step inside her mind and have a peak into her world at times.

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Valentines Day

Finally got Valentines decor up. I added one this year. I wanted to have a whole bunch of images of us (my fam) loving on eachother. I wasn’t really sure where I was going with it when I started. It kind of just evolved to this. I didn’t want to buy anything new (trying to use up the “junk” that Franklin, Bulldog, Baby, Wubby thinks I have too much of in the craft room)… I know he is right.

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These found a new home this year and I added pom poms. Love those!

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Today I am thankful for

Freedom… hope it lasts.

Photography tips

I have had many people ask me for lessons in photography or to offer a class. I have to stick to my guns and not start getting myself too busy again, but I have to say the idea is inticing. I would love to do that. When I think of it my mind starts doing that thing my husband hates. He thinks that when I get “into” a project, or take on an idea  I get tunnel vision. He is right. The creative juices start to flow and my mind races with ideas. Everything gets put on the backburner (except dinner). Down Girl. This year is the year for change. Balance is key this year. Ok, so how could I do that just a little and still have a healthy family life and personal time as well.

So I was thinking I would post photography tips here (on my blog). I don’t know… daily, weekly. I’m not sure yet. Just tossing the idea around. I have over 10 years of experience and I’d love to share what I know. I by no means know everything, infact I use to get really intimidated when someone would ask me how I do what I do. I use to think “I can’t explain it. I just know it.” However, latley I have had so many people, usually moms wanting to take better photos of their kids, asking me about photography. In the last few years my confidence as a teacher has grown. I’m sure, as always is the case, that as I share what I know, I too will gain more knowledge.

Now what to start with.

This was my first photo shoot. It  is my son Griffin who is 11 years old now. I had read every book I could find on photography and finally got a nice SLR film camera. I placed some blankets on the coffee table and sat on the couch facing him (a big north facing window right behind me). I got him to sleep (because at this point a moving target may have overwhelmed me), and plopped some black and white film it the camera. This was the result. All automatic (I think). So the obsession began. I soaked up any and everything I could about photography from then on.

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Rock the boat (i know… clever).

The other day when it was raining, Rocky was across the street playing with two neighbor boys (both quite a bit older then him). They had made sail boats and were having boat races down the gutter. He was really frustrated because he wanted a boat too. It was almost dark and time for dinner so I tried to suffice him with a stick for a boat. No, he wanted one like theirs and he was really sad. We went inside and I told Chad what had happened. He felt really sorry for Rock. Rock really doesn’t have any friends on our street to play with. I’m sure he was so excited to have someone to play with but he couldn’t really join in the way he wanted to. The next day, as dads do, Chad saved the day and made a popcycle boat with Rock. One problem… no rain. I didn’t realize what was going on until I noticed Rock sitting on the curb so sad. He didn’t think about there being no water today. Then he jumped up and got this really bright look on his face. “BUT WE HAVE A HOSE!!” he said. He had a blast racing that boat down the gutter. Unfortunately, he was alone this time, but on the bright side he got to shout (every time), “I WIN!”

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Ideas for Valentines day decor

Valentines Day is tricky for me. There is a very small window (in my opinion) to decorate. Don’t get me wrong, when I finally do decide it is time- I love it. I always feel like after Christmas I need a breather from the clutter. I always seem to go through closets and cupboards and clean off all surfaces after Christmas. It feels great to have a clutter-free environment again. Wait, wait wait. Hearts. already? I have to have enough time from Christmas to be excited again about Valentines day, but I can’t wait too long or I’ll miss the window all together and only have a week or so to enjoy it. I wonder if anyone else feels this predicament? Well, I’m ready to feel the love. I was thinking today of adding to the decor this year and got on the net to get some ideas. Thought I’d share some.

The first is from Marta Stewart. I’m definitely going to do this with the kids. They’ll love it.

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I have SO many buttons. This would be easy and fun! I found this on katesnestingthings.
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Then there is this darling handmade “I’m assuming heart wreath”. (I only have a little portion of the image). It comes from Simply Handmade magazine.

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Both of the next two are from one of my favorite blogs… Apartment Therapy.

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Time for me to get the Valentines box out and “feel the love”. Maybe I’ll post some of my own decor.

Phone Manners

I overheard Griffin, my oldest, on the phone the other day and he said, “well, uuuuuh, ok then, uuuuhh, ok ya by.”

Hmmm…. Time for a phone manners lesson. Durring dinner I told the kids that we are going to roll play. I’m one of their friends dads and they are calling to see if “Joey” can play.

Me: Hello.

Griff: What up?

WRONG ON SO MANY LEVELS.

Griff said, “Mom that’s how I talk to him.”

Me: Well you shouldn’t.

Griff: Why?

Me: Because he is your elder and it is disrespectful.

Griff: Why?

Me: I don’t know. Lets move on to Piper.

(I am one of my friends calling for me and you answer the phone.)

Piper: This is the Whitings, May I help you. (perfect of course.)

Me: Hi piper, how are you?

Pipe: I’m great. How are you?

Me: fine, Is your mom home.

Piper: Yes, would you like to speak to her?

ROCKS TURN…

Griffin: Hi, is rock there

Rock: (because everything he says has to rhyme and if he can rhyme it with poo or pee all the better.) Let me see… peeeeeee!

Griffin: May I PLEASE talk to someone else?

(Piper bursts into hysteria. Then the impersonations start. The cowboy voice, the Amy Pohler (saturday night live) voice)

LESSON TIME OVER.

ME: Well, I think they got the idea???????????????

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I know….Next lesson… Not talking with your mouth full.

I couldn’t believe I was pregnant when I had a 4 month old baby.

Now I am so thankful. I love it that my two youngest are 13 months apart. They are really close - best friends. My daughter takes really good care of him (as if she is much older). I love their little conversations and listening to her teach him things. Sometimes it is hard because she is SO independent and wants to do everything for HIM too. Because he is the baby of the family I worry  that he will not get that self confidence that my other kids seem to have. In my own selfish way I want to keep him my baby, however I know that is not the best thing for him. I forget that he is four years old sometimes. It’s funny because when my oldest was 4 he was doing so many more things. Its natural perhaps that we expect so much from our first. I know I need to somehow get the kids to stop doing everything for him and let him get his own bumps and bruises along the way, like they did. I know this his how you raise independent and self confident children. I’m a believer in it.  So, I stick him on a bike and send him down the road. . .  He is happy! …. And big sister is there to pick him up when he falls.bikes4bikes51bikes3bikes1bikes2